Philosophy of Relationship....
Love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. cocktail collections of lace
Make no mistake, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
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Time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.
You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!
Here is what works....
And emotional intelligence.
commitment is greater than feelings and is the great arsenal that do destroy unnecessary impulses.
With those characteristics listed up there, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.
We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship.
After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, but unfortunately people always shy away from responsibilities.
Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.
It takes little or no effort to fall in love. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.
That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.
The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self disciplined.